When you choose a mate, you choose a set of problems for the rest of your life.
Nearly 70 percent of the conflicts couples have are perpetual issues. They are unresolved disagreements that are rooted in personality differences or personal preferences. Stepcouples also find that they marry themselves to some perpetual problems they didn’t anticipate. Things like ongoing conflict between homes, financial troubles rooted in the past, or an ex-mother in law. The quicker you accept these things and ask God for the humility to adjust to them the better off you will be.