When others cut down, you lift up.
1 Peter 3:9 tells us not to retaliate or have a sharp tongue, but to “bless others.” In our culture today people think their highest calling is to stand against someone publically and make them look bad. But how does criticism and judgment influence someone’s heart? Instead, move toward people in understanding and compassion; that adds life to them. This applies everywhere. We are called first to bless. Only then is there room for correction or instruction, and not until. First, be a blessing.