Are you becoming the spouse you need to be?
Gail wrote expressing appreciation for our training and then she said, “Clearly, divorce is not part of God’s design for marriage, but when you have divorced and are remarried, that’s all the more reason to make sure you now become the spouse you need to be.” Gail doesn’t want to repeat the past so she moved herself towards being the spouse she needs to be. Not what others are called to be, but specifically who and what she needs to be in her marriage, for her husband, in this blended family.