So this guy runs up to me at one of my stepfamily conferences and asks, “What do I do about the ‘D & R’ tattooed on my forehead?”
Now, trust me there was no tattoo. He explained, “Do you remember the women in The Scarlett Letter? She committed adultery so the community put an “A” on her clothes so everyone knew what she did. It's like I have a D & R on my forehead: divorced and remarried. Everyone knows it and they look at me like I’m a horrible person. I said, “I hate it when people do that. The truth is we are all sinners and we all need a cross. Maybe Jesus changed the meaning of your tattoo to delivered and redeemed.”