Hey Ron, should we have a baby?
I know that’s a strange question but, honestly, once people find out I work with stepfamilies, couples do ask. What they are saying is, “We’re a blended family and we wonder if having another child will help or hurt our family.” My answer: “I have no idea” and then I add, “But I bet you do.” Adding a child to a stepfamily generally helps strong stepfamilies get stronger and weak stepfamilies get weaker. Having a child is a huge decision. Bathe it in prayer and, ultimately, follow God’s lead.