FamilyLife Blended® con Ron L. Deal

Now here is a delicate one. What do you say to your spouse when you see a haunting in progress?

What do you say to your spouse when you see negative memories from the past haunting them? Like that feeling like you’re not good enough. Or the fear that someone who today says they love you won’t be around tomorrow? What do you do when you see your spouse’s past interfering with your marital present? Well, with great compassion not judgment gently say something like, “You know something tells me this is harder for you than I realize. Tell me about your fear.” Then pause and listen. And love.