Do you have a soulmate? Then you need soul love.
We have this strange idea that if we find the right person to love, our soulmate, love will be easy because of who they are. Author and Bible teacher, John Ortberg, says in his book, Soul Keeping, that to love your soulmate means giving your will, your choices, mind, thoughts, feelings, your body, behaviors, and your habits and aligning them for the good of the other person before God. We bless their soul, he says, when we love them with ours. A soulmate is more about you than it is about them.