Never get caught in a forest fire.
In 1988, Yellowstone National Park was burned by a massive forest fire that cost $120 million to extinguish. A number of factors contributed. For a long time the forest service would quickly put out small forest fires, which resulted in a huge build-up of debris. Some people are like this. When a relational conflict arises, they quickly put it out and relationship rubble builds up. Don’t be afraid of conflict. When managed, it removes what is unhealthy and helps your forest to be free of debris.