Every couple has conflict. In fact, healthy and unhealthy couples have the same amount of conflict. But what’s different is how they manage it.
Healthy couples are more likely to resolve their arguments. Essentially, they put into practice dozens of disciplines that help them move past the issue. James 3 in the Bible says, "A careless word out of your mouth can be a spark that sets off a forest fire." Not criticizing your spouse, managing your tone, turning down your volume, and listening with openness to understand are disciplines that keep you from setting off a forest fire. Don’t be a fire starter. Be a fire fighter who puts them out!