So you may be asking me, what one piece of advice would you give blended families?
Family life is stressful. Blended family living is no different. My advice is simple. Seek out every help you can find. Mentors. Counselors. Websites. Resources. And a local stepfamily ministry. But here's the catch on that one. Very few churches actually have a stepfamily ministry. But more and more marriage ministries are catching the vision for how they can be a support to stepfamilies. In the meantime, seek out answers and support you need. Maybe in the process you’ll help somebody else.