When life threatens to beat you down, don't lose sight of each other. That's the advice of authors Matt and Lisa Jacobson. On FamilyLife Today, the Jacobsons reflect on a particularly difficult time in their marriage—the birth of their fifth child, who was born with brain damage after suffering a stroke in utero. The long days in the hospital's ICU, along with starting a new company and caring for four other children at home, put a strain on their marriage. Matt explains what it means to "act like a man" and love and protect your wife and children in difficult times.