Do you live with regrets? So often we are haunted by what could have been--if only we had listened, if only tragedy had passed us by, if only we hadn't said that! Regrets can imprison us. Obsessing over our regrets comes from the false belief that we're in control of everything. We imagine that if we had made different choices, we could have navigated past everything we don't like in life. We're ignoring that God has a hand in our steps.