“Ron, I can always tell when the holidays are coming because everyone in my home gets a little testy.”
Offer kids your blessing. Of course the holidays are wonderful times for children but they can also be guilt producing and stressful. For example, moving between homes comes with a mix of emotions for kids; sadness for leaving one home and excitement to be with the other. This is even worse when one home makes the child feel guilty for time spent with others. Make sure they know they have your blessing to enjoy their time and family in the other home. Now that is a holiday gift they really need.