“Behold, that thus shall the man be blessed who feareth the Lord.” You can’t get away from that. Thus, there’s that reverential fear of God. Obedience unto Him. The children know whether you love the Lord, whether you’re serving Him, whether you’re obeying Him, whether He’s important in your life. My friend, there’s no substitute for that. You never have a happy home until you get rightly related with God. And when you get rightly related with God, then it’ll be amazing how many of these other problems that they just fall into place and take care of themselves.